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My Confessions (Confessions of a Phoenix)
Confession 3. I am unfortunately more flawed than I think
Confession 4: I drown in my true feelings.

Nika Gem
Jan 28, 20243 min read


26 Adult Things I Learned/ Rediscovered by 26
It's another year of me aging. I hope gracefully so. And in honor of my previous list of "25 things I learned by 25,"

Nika Gem
Jun 16, 20234 min read


28 Things I've Realized just isn't for Me-For my 28th Birthday (28 Things I've Rejected)
So yeah, I used to be a people pleaser. When I like someone, my love language—which is quality time and words of affirmation—unleashes an uncontrollable urge inside me to start saying nice things and giving people undivided attention

Nika Gem
Jun 158 min read


Everything is Beautiful in Rose Colored Glasses
But instead, we strive to eat big, live big, prove ourselves.
And that’s not always wrong—but sometimes, we genuinely don’t know how to get it right.

Nika Gem
Apr 304 min read


While you "Suffer"...Look on the Bright Side
I am guilty of pessimism, cynicism, and so many other NEGATIVE isms simply because, at the onset of an unfavorable event, I am in shock tha

Nika Gem
Jul 31, 20234 min read


I Want More Than A Happy Birthday & A Happy New Year!
My dreams are stifled by shame and even warfare, which I know can be overcome through consistent prayer and weeping; the occasional....

Nika Gem
Jan 3, 20233 min read


25 Things I Learned by Age 25
As a new year approaches in my life, I pause to reflect.( I should say I read somewhere that said a new year for someone is really on...

Nika Gem
Jun 13, 20227 min read

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